梦洁妈咪0uk0 发表于 2021-8-23 14:13:51

活了二十多年没想到重男轻女也能发生在我身上

<p><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">我从来都没想过重男轻女这种事竟然能发生在我身上，我家庭条件不错，爸爸是儒商，妈妈是985的大学教授，苦情的来了，我还有个弟弟。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">最近我弟大学快毕业了，家里二话不说花了百来万给他全款买了套复式，我工作两年了，别说买房，房租都是我自己交。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">我还一直拿这事儿引以为荣觉得我这是爸妈信任我，培养我独立，现在看来这哪是培养独立，根本是不心疼。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">我弟高中毕业家里就给配了个车，我可倒好，每天上班挤地铁倒公交，家里从来都是嘴上心疼，绝口不提给我买车。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">就这样我也忍了，直到我今天听到我爸妈说话。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">给闺女买什么房？反正也要嫁出去，男方肯定有房的啊，你现在买给她，以后也是落在外人手里。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">我真的心都凉了，平时一个月工资10000多点，5000多都花在父母身上了，买保养品，买衣服，带出去旅游，结果，呵，别人家的…</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">真是应了那句老话，爸爸可以把果树上的果子都给女儿，但还是只想把果园传给儿子。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">大家觉得这件事儿是我想太多了吗？</span></p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//www.fqlook.cn/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_Diz" id="wcn_editor_css"/>

LYly 发表于 2021-8-23 16:14:16

外婆肯定疼孙子，千百年来都是男轻这个观念。

绝色 发表于 2021-8-24 02:40:14

老一辈的人大都是重男轻女

慕丨木槿 发表于 2021-8-24 15:14:24

哈哈，老人家都想着给儿子多一点的

萧峰 发表于 2021-8-24 15:14:43

偏心就是对不起，要不就别生，生了就要同等对待。不是女儿要求父母生的，是父母快活自要生的。

吃饱了撑饱了吃 发表于 2021-8-24 15:14:57

不是女儿贪心问题，只是伤感而已，觉得付出，心里不平衡而已，理解

1392777902 发表于 2021-8-24 15:15:43

很多人重男轻女成了潜意识

冰封火星 发表于 2021-8-24 15:15:50

其实父母也是在锻炼你，当年我也讨厌父母让我做很多家务，现在长大了，有了自己的孩子才发现没让孩子锻炼自己做事是害了孩子

libra92 发表于 2021-8-24 15:16:01

你父母都是有钱的，你怎么可能一万一月五千花父母头上？重男轻女有时是渲染出来的。

ououzh 发表于 2021-8-24 15:16:14

真是搞不懂，这组合退回到二十几年前，简直是欢天喜地、敲锣打鼓、儿女双全、人生赢家，整个一“好”字人家啊，时间延移到二十几年后，当女儿的才明白，原来“我”的出生就是来衬托哥哥或者弟弟的价值和金贵的
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