当孩子哭着不去幼儿园时，家长可以试着这样做
<p><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">当孩子哭着不去幼儿园时，家长千万不要只是鼓励说幼儿园有多好，老师、小朋友都很喜欢你这样的话，这么说只会让孩子陷入无助。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">家长可以试着这么做：</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">一、试着和孩子产生共鸣</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">家长可以这么说：“妈妈知道上幼儿园不容易，妈妈不在身边什么都和家里不一样对不对？”</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">二、接纳孩子的情绪</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">家长可以这么说：“妈妈知道你不习惯吃幼儿园的饭，不想睡幼儿园的人床，不想玩游戏，不想交朋友，只想和爸爸妈妈在一起，只想抱着你的娃娃，是不是？这些都很正常，妈妈都知道。”</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">三、鼓励孩子</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">家长可以这么说：“你能做到坚持上学已经很了不起了，妈妈相信有一天你一定会爱上幼儿园的。”</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">当家长说完这些后，孩子可能会大哭，那是一种被理解，被接纳的释放，孩子的内心得到很大的安慰，原来妈妈懂我。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">入园哭闹几乎是每个孩子都会面临的问题，父母要早做准备，帮助孩子顺利度过入园焦虑。给大家几点建议：</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">首先，家长平时要多陪伴孩子，让孩子感受到妈妈爸爸的爱，有足够的安 全感，这样当孩子入园时，分离焦虑就会好很多。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">其次，可以带孩子提前参观几次幼儿园，让孩子看看幼儿园里都有什么好玩的，看看教室、睡觉的小床、滑滑梯、图书角、活动室等，让孩子熟悉一下环境。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: SF Pro Display, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, Helvetica Neue, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">第三，可以提前给孩子读相关幼儿园绘本。让孩子提前通过绘本认识和熟悉幼儿园的生活。让孩子对幼儿园产生兴趣，对老师和小朋友产生好感。同时也可以借助绘本学会幼儿园生活规则和与小朋友友好相处的方法。</span></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//www.fqlook.cn/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_fVa" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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