陈?? 发表于 2021-7-22 17:14:23

青春叛逆期是孩子留给家长最后的机会!把青春期变成孩...

<p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">▼青春期是人生的第一茬果实</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">孩子的成长过程有两个最敏感阶段,<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">第一个阶段是4—6岁,</span></strong>在这两三年里,孩子从家庭感受到了生存中最基本的要素,并对性别及环境有了最初的认知,这一切是<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">“<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">一个人之所以为人”</span></strong></span>的根据,也是人际关系的基石。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">第二个阶段就是青春期,它是在第一个阶段的基础上发生的,</span></strong><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;"></span></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">换言之,它的质量基本取决于第一阶段。比如一个女孩子在小学前没有得到足够的父母关爱,那么步入青春期时,她就有可能早恋、厌学、与老师作对……,一个男孩子也有可能因童年阶段与父母的不良关系,而在青春期发生一些反常现象,比如网瘾、打架、早恋或逃学等。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">童年是种子,青春期结出第一茬果实,虽然青黄不接,青涩脆弱,却也实在地挂满枝头,呼朋引伴。但有经验的果农都知道,第一茬果实不能要,果树要养,因为它们的营养还不够丰富,还不足以承担成熟的责任。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">这是对青春期最形象的比喻,看上去他们已经出落得婷婷玉立或高大威猛,却远未达到成熟的要求,广义地说,是心理年龄幼稚,狭义地讲,是除身体外其它一切条件均不具备。所以他们无权,也无法承担生活。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">▼青春期是孩子留给父母的最后机会</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">但并不是说这个阶段就该无所作为,事实上,<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">青春期之重要,甚至要超过人生的任何一个阶段。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">原因有二:<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第一,<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">它是成家立业的前奏</span></strong><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">;<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二,它是孩子留给家长的最后机会。</strong>什么机会?</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">▼调整和教育的机会</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">也就是说,<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">如果一个孩子在童年阶段没有得到足够的关爱,并因此而表现不良,那么父母就要在孩子的青春期给予弥补和引导,</span></strong>如果在这一阶段,孩子的性格漏洞仍未得到修补,那么他/她的一生将很难与幸福、健康、快乐结缘。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">从多年治疗与咨询的经验中不难看出,无论是高考减压,还是亲子关系,或是早恋、逃学、网瘾、叛逆等,若父母在孩子青春期阶段给予正确的引导与关爱,上述大部分问题都有解决的可能,可如果将之推延几年。对,只是短短的几年后,当这些问题背后的心理因素如病毒一样贯穿于孩子们的工作和生活,就可能成为终生难愈的肿瘤,再治起来,不仅成本极高,而且治愈的可能性相当低。原因是,他们已经定型了,“<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">炎症</span>”已经发展为“<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">癌症</span>”!</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">▼青春期伤害的恶果</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">青春期是孩子留给家长最后的机会,因此在这个阶段,许多孩子也令家长十分头疼,有些明智的家长会以耐心地陪伴、引导等方式感化孩子,他们或求助于专家,或者与老师沟通,或者把孩子送到国外……无论这些举动是否高明,总之,他们在付出心血,而这些心血,<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">孩子不会视而不见。只不过,那些回报有可能滞后。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">另外还有相当一部分父母没有这种耐心,面对表现不良的子女,他们仍然延续着十几年前的管教方式,比如在孩子5岁时遭到父母责打,15岁时还在忍受这种皮肉之苦。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">这就等于进一步强化了孩子的存在方式:我是不被父母关爱的(5岁时),我是不被环境接纳的(15岁),那么再过十年,25岁时,这个人就有可能发展出反社会人格或自虐倾向,再过十年、二十年、三十年……那些疼痛和羞辱将永远伴随其左右,地狱由此形成。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">研究证明,青春期被家庭迫害的孩子,犯罪率和自杀率相当高。</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"></span></span></strong><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px;">除此之外,这些受害者还要发展出自虐、自残、自贬、自卑等特质,这一切,均玷污了美丽圣洁的青春期,但此时的孩子还无法离开父母而独立生存,因此,他们还会被迫承受来自父母的压力与伤害。并带着这些伤疤走向他们的下一站:社会。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 112, 192);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长们,请抓住孩子青春期最后的机会,人生是个单程旅行,没有回头路可走!</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); 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