威叔叔 发表于 2021-8-11 14:30:00

哪是酒桌文化,就是酒桌霸凌

<section data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br/></section><p></p><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 169, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 169, 0);font-size: 14px;"></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">酒桌文化,又是酒桌文化。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">很难想象在2021年的互联网大厂,酒桌文化仍然大行其道。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">这几天,一名阿里巴巴的女员工反映,在出差应酬的过程中,被领导灌酒,遭到客户猥亵,在醉酒几乎丧失意识后,该领导还多次实施性侵。</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-backh="796" data-backw="538" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="542" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="760" data-ratio="1.4799196787148594" data-s="300,640" src="https://www.fqlook.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/Uj2PibcwYxOP6uNzbYialLNckrsNf8KqUh6VcWgPX85CHf18UfvTSlibzF8uwpUzUogWVfmmtibmAz9iayciaqjnvw8A/0?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="498" style="border-color: rgb(17, 123, 188);border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;box-sizing: border-box;border-radius: 6px;width: 100%;height: auto;"/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-top: 5px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="font-size: 12px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">◆</span></strong></strong></strong><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">&nbsp;</span>阿里员工在网络上爆料被灌酒,受到猥亵与性侵。</span><br/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;">图片来源:财经网</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">犯罪的问题留待警方取证定罪,我们想来聊聊这个酒桌文化。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">四个字一出,浮现的是一张张腐朽、虚伪的面孔。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">美国作家、记者何伟在《江城》中就曾总结过这种酒桌文化:</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.5em;"><em><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">「喝酒可不是为了放松休息。它经常乃是竞赛性质的,通常会用到白酒,一种强烈的,口感恶心的谷物酿的酒。男人们相互敬酒,一口干掉,而这种饮宴很有发展为恃强凌弱的倾向,参与者们相互刺激,直到某个人喝出病来。」</span></em></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">它假以「</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">小酌怡情</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」,让你一杯一杯往下咽;假以「</span><span style="">不喝就是不给我面子</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」,来划分圈子、确认敌我。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">这种酒桌文化发展到职场上更是要命。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">平时的酒桌,大不了就是「</span><span style="">不给面子</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」,可一旦到职场、官场上,这个向你敬酒的人变成了领导,他的喜怒掌握了你的职业走向,或升或落,谁敢不接?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">在阿里女员工的控诉里,她形容这是「</span><span style="">不敢拒绝,不能拒绝</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」的劝酒。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">也许领导也不爱喝,也许领导也知道你不爱喝,但敬来的这杯酒,早已不是单纯的酒。酒精的浓度、酒量的高低,都是你忠诚度的体现。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">当上位者的酒杯端来,他笑眯眯地注视着你,这场忠诚度的测试就开始了。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">我们讲过「</span><span style="">指鹿为马</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」的故事,赵高在众臣面前,牵来一头鹿,对着秦二世说:「</span><span style="">这是马</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">赵高不知道这是鹿吗?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">不是的。他很清楚。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">他正是要利用这样颠倒黑白的手法来测试,区分哪些人跟自己同一阵营、忠心耿耿,哪些人自视清高、不愿曲意迎合。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">赵高就是用这样简单的手段来划出阵营,建立自己的秩序。</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: normal;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-top: 5px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);"></strong><span style="color: rgb(17, 123, 188);"></span><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="font-size: 12px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">◆</span></strong></strong></strong><span style="font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">&nbsp;</span><strong style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);"></strong>指鹿为马故事中的博弈模型分析。<br/></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;">图片来源:《人人都能懂的信息经济学》第三集</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">酒桌文化也是如此。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">上位者通过劝酒来彰显自身的权力,通过一杯酒来完成权力压制。喝了,代表下属愿意承认权威,服从权威,是「</span><span style="">一类人</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」;不喝,就代表你蔑视权威,连这杯小小的酒都不愿意喝,还能指望你做什么呢?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">上位者就是以此来摆高姿态,树立起自己的权威。喝不喝得下这杯酒,也就意味着下属在多大程度上愿意服从这个权威。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">因此,职场的酒桌文化,其实是赤裸裸的霸凌,是一种畸形的权力压迫。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">我们真的需要这样的酒桌文化吗?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">为什么职场上下级的关系会演变成权力的压迫,甚至需要通过喝酒来维系?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">8月9日,阿里巴巴CEO张勇发布了处理决定,涉事高管已经予以辞退,相关的领导也引咎辞职。并且,阿里会加快制定《反性骚扰行动准则》,在全集团内开展培训,开通专门的举报通道,以形成「</span><span style="">对性骚扰零容忍</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」的企业文化。</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-backh="580" data-backw="542" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="542" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="1066" data-ratio="1.0707692307692307" data-s="300,640" src="https://www.fqlook.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Uj2PibcwYxOP6uNzbYialLNckrsNf8KqUh9n4oU0T9yY7NHb928GXZphkN4AVdUGvr0FjwpdxYVAjCr6icfNLXgxQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="650" style="border-radius: 6px;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(17, 123, 188);border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;box-sizing: border-box;"/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-top: 5px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="font-size: 12px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">◆</span></strong></strong></strong><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">&nbsp;</span>阿里巴巴的CEO张勇(花名逍遥子)的回应。</span><br/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;">图片来源:网易</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">这个信息令人瞠目结舌,它表明在此之前,阿里这样的大公司并没有一个专门的举报机制,也没有相关的守则来规范员工行为。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">在女员工的控诉书里也是如此,她在发现被性侵的第一时间报警、向单位上级反应,负责人却没有给出处理结果,反倒是施害者曲一仍然如常工作。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">投诉无门,女员工只好寄希望于舆论,她去到公司食堂发传单,也只有劝阻与冷漠。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">最后,才不得已借助网络舆论。</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-top: 5px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="font-size: 12px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">◆</span></strong></strong></strong><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">&nbsp;</span>该员工在公司食堂发放的传单。</span><br/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;">图片来源:财经网</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">一个本来应该是象征着中国最新潮的产业,却老旧得如同上世纪的蜘蛛网。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">上下级之间的权力关系已然存在,可是对权力的规范却不见踪影。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">《妇女权益保障法》中有规定:</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.5em;"><em><span style="">「禁止对妇女实施性骚扰,受害妇女有权向单位和有关机关投诉。」</span></em></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">这也就意味着,单位也有义务帮助受害者调查取证,帮助受害者度过这一难关。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">在一个现代化的企业,在一个制度完善的公司,应该有完备的约束权力的法则,也应该有完备的保障员工权利的机制。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">在苹果公司的《Apple供应商行为准则》中就明确规定:</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.5em;"><em><span style="">「供应商应承诺杜绝工作场所中的骚扰和虐待情况。供应商不得以苛刻或不人道的待遇胁迫工人,包括但不限于口头辱骂和骚扰、心理骚扰、精神和肉体胁迫,以及性骚扰。」</span></em><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-backh="424" data-backw="574" data-ratio="0.73806275579809" data-s="300,640" src="https://www.fqlook.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/Uj2PibcwYxOP6uNzbYialLNckrsNf8KqUh2fzIfAg6jickiauJ94Pibd1sibcQIXU6zX5Ic1bTmYy1s39x78XibzGPPMQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="733" style="border-color: rgb(17, 123, 188);border-style: solid;border-width: 2px;box-sizing: border-box;border-radius: 6px;width: 100%;height: auto;"/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-top: 5px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="font-size: 12px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">◆</span></strong></strong></strong><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">&nbsp;</span>苹果公司的《Apple供应商行为准则》。</span><br/></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;">图片来源:Apple</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">一个现代化的企业,不仅应该积极建立互相尊重、彼此平等的合作关系,也应当建立预防机制,在事件发生时才能迅速响应、运转,才不至于到事情上了热搜,才表示「</span><span style="">震惊、气愤、羞愧</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">当一个公司没有这样的机制,这个公司就仍是依靠「</span><span style="">自觉</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」来运转的公司,它需要依靠酒桌来让生意流动,而不是能力、利益与合作。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">职场不应该是一场赌博,今天遇到了不劝酒的「</span><span style="">好领导</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」,当然值得庆幸,可明天呢?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">若是没有明文规定、照章办事,那些「</span><span style="">不得</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」「</span><span style="">不许</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」没有被明确写下、明确禁止的话,谁能保证明天不是自己踩进坑呢?</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">一个公司当然需要人性化,需要人文关怀,这与「</span><span style="">照章办事</span><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">」并不冲突。而恰恰是有了这样的人性化,才能先知先觉地体察到制度的不圆满,完善制度,人文关怀也才能更好地发挥。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">著名刑法学者罗翔就表示:</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.5em;"><em><span style="">「参与灌酒可能构成犯罪。遇到灌酒行为每个人都有制止义务,若无法制止应当立即报警。」</span></em></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;">//www.fqlook.cn/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:player&url=https%3A%2F%2Fv.qq.com%2Fiframe%2Fpreview.html%3Fwidth%3D500%26height%3D375%26auto%3D0%26vid%3Dk3263m3r4x2&org=https%3A%2F%2Fmp.weixin.qq.com%2Fs%3Fsrc%3D11%26timestamp%3D1628654409%26ver%3D3245%26signature%3DHqF*IZu6zoEFPY47d9Q2TArAf-f9PkpAltSILOJB2PRhnbuHyqjeu1Twau87YymkQQ7T3Rr9pEHeRGqIubA8f0UG6QckL--L84-PBRVHCqdH0Q5IVSoo5i--8dHG0Ty-%26new%3D1</section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 1px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;"><strong><strong><span style="font-size: 12px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">◆</span></strong></strong></strong><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(255, 169, 0);">&nbsp;</span>罗翔:参与灌酒可能构成犯罪。</span></section><section style="line-height: normal;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;">视频来源:腾讯视频</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">这是犯罪与帮助犯罪的共谋。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">这样的文化一旦产生,进入潜意识,它就可能会在酒桌,在饭局,在职场或是生活的任何角落影响人们。</span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 25px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;">因此,必须以「</span><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">制度</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;">」对权力加以制约,才不会有各种各样名目纷繁的「</span><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">文化</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;">」被利用,来实现一次又一次的霸凌。<span style="color: rgb(255, 169, 0);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 12px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">■</span></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px;line-height: normal;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(255, 169, 0);"><strong>参考文献</strong></span></section><section style="margin: 5px 8px 15px;line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 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