研究表明：爸妈做这件事，孩子最容易「抑郁」
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letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(236, 131, 29); color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"> 最后 </span></strong></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">聊这个选题的时候，不少编辑都说有过类似的经历：</p><blockquote mpa-paragraph-type="quote" style="margin: 25px 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 17px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0px;">“跟爸妈说被同学欺负，不想去学校，爸妈只会骂我不懂事。</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0px;">”</span><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“心爱的宠物丢了，我很伤心，爸妈却说没事再买一只。”</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“想报考心仪的学校，爸妈却说我目光短浅。”</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></p><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></blockquote><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 1.75; letter-spacing: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0px;">很多年过去，那种“不被倾听”的失落感，依旧隐隐作痛。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">因为，父母是孩子最初看到的世界啊，爸妈的每一句反驳，每一次忽视，对孩子来讲都影响深远。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">久而久之，他们就会觉得，自己的声音、自己的情绪都不重要，自己的存在，也没那么重要。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我一直觉得，最好的家庭氛围，就是“孩子吵闹，爸妈听话”。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子被允许表达，也得到倾听时，他们才能和世界产生真实的联系，他们的生命力才能伸展出来。</strong></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; 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