给已婚和准备结婚的你18个无价忠告
<p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上有一个扎心的问题：“哪一刻让你对婚姻死了心？”</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在下面近7000个回答中，我看到了这样一句话：</p><blockquote mpa-paragraph-type="quote" style="margin: 25px 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 17px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">“一开始没有人在意，不过是一次争吵，一次失望，一次痛哭，直到我们再也回不去。”</span></blockquote><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在和上千对夫妻聊过后，我发现很多人并未真正了解婚姻，就草草地走进了婚姻。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们在婚姻里吃过的亏，走过的弯路，本可以早早避免。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这18个暗藏在婚姻之下的隐性规则，可以帮助我们从一开始就建立更好的，更长久的婚姻模式。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">分享给大家。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻是锦上添花，不是雪中送炭。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻从来不能解决任何问题，它本身就是一个既难搞又绕不开的问题。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">童话故事里王子和灰姑娘幸福地生活在一起了，而现实中这两种人甚至都没有见面的机会。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以指望着婚姻来拯救你的孤独、贫穷和糟糕的生活，根本是痴心妄想。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻永远是锦上添花，只有自己活明白了，你才有能力去面对婚姻。</strong></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0px;"></span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">相爱，并不能解决婚后的所有问题。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">没进入婚姻之前，很多人觉得“有情饮水饱”，只要相爱，没有什么是解决不了的。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但爱情和婚姻的冲突恰恰在于：</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爱情是花前月下，是浪漫和永恒，而婚姻却是柴米油盐，是争吵和忍耐。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">相爱容易相处难，生活的鸡零狗碎会逐渐消磨掉两个人最初的激情和耐心。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">没有爱情的婚姻是耍流氓，但是仅仅靠相爱维系的婚姻注定风雨飘摇、不堪一击。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不对等的婚姻关系，迟早会走向灭亡。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">古人婚嫁讲究门当户对，如今自由恋爱讲究精神独立、三观契合。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">说到底，都意味着“对等的婚姻关系才稳定”。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这个对等不是说完全一样的经济条件，你有1万块，我必须也有1万块。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">而是说任何一个人在这段关系里都不是处于弱势的一方，而是各有所长。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就像郭晶晶和霍启刚，你是豪门子弟，我是世界冠军，谁也不比谁差，谁也不会看低了谁。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">势均力敌是最好的关系。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">选择“全职爸爸”或“全职妈妈”都要慎重再慎重。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻中的“牺牲”应该被认定为一种公平的交换，你赚钱，我带娃，分工合作。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">但是事情的发展总会朝向不可预测的方向，这让“全职父母”有了非常大的危机感。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以问问自己：你是否做好了牺牲的准备？</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">牺牲你的社交圈，你的职场收入，你的兴趣梦想，全身心投入到照顾小孩这件事中。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当两个人的社交圈有了很大差异，步伐逐渐不一致的时候，伴侣是否会肯定你的付出和牺牲，而你又如何弥补你们之间的差距。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚后的矛盾，绝大多数可以用钱解决，婚姻需要有钱。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚前是爱情，婚后是现实。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">爱情可以风花雪月，但现实生活必须粮草先行。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有人说，婚姻里大多数的不幸福，在于钱挣得不够多！</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">经济基础决定上层建筑，没有物质的爱情注定是风雨飘摇。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以裸婚这件事一定要三思再三思，没事早点睡，有空多挣钱，比什么都重要。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子并不能成为维系婚姻的理由。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一项调查显示，70%的男人会鼓励妻子生孩子，而离婚时只有17%的男人会要孩子。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这足以告诫女人们，孩子永远无法捆绑住男人，更无法缝合婚姻。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">成年人，永远要懂得为自己的选择负责任。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果要孩子，那一定是出于爱，而不是要他作为某种工具，去拯救父母的人生。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婆媳关系的好坏，取决于男人的态度和作为。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">自古以来，婆媳之间的矛盾和战争从未停止。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">两个人从陌生人成为一家人，是通过男人这座桥梁连接在一起的。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">纵观那些和谐的婆媳关系，其实不在于婆婆到底做了什么，而在于男人的态度和处理方法。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果男人还没有在精神上断奶，不管这个婆婆是真情还是假意，这个家庭依然会鸡飞狗跳。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0px;"></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻里需要给对方，比恋爱时更多的空间。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看过很多类似的新闻，男人下班后躲在车里，自己呆1个小时再回家，以躲避整日喋喋不休的妻子。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而一些妻子忍受不了男人24小时的监视，极强的控制欲和占有欲让人喘不过气来。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果双方都能够意识到，即使结婚了，也是独立的两个个体，凡事都要有个“度”；</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不必把过多的注意力放到对方身上，就能给彼此最大限度的自由。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">建立婚姻的边界感和空间感，才不会让这段关系失衡。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0px;"></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">别把老公当儿子伺候，别把老婆当妈使唤。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">女人结婚之后，往往会泛滥出一些母性。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有的人照顾老公像照顾儿子一样事事操心，甚至有时候不听话还要生气。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">男人结婚后似乎是捡了一个妈，在家什么都不管，让妻子做这做那。<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">这样的身份错位，让两个人产生了难以控制的情感焦虑。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人一定要懂得给自己定位，知道自己是谁，该做什么不该做什么。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好的婚姻关系，讲“情”更要讲“理”。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人常说，如果你爱我就不要跟我讲道理。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在争执和发生矛盾的时候，我们习惯去指责对方，很难意识到自己是不是也有错。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但实际上，婚姻的本质是一种合作关系，在婚姻里，比爱更重要的，是合作意识。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">它意味着我们要遵守社会关系中最基本的契约，那就是讲道理和守规矩。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">一味地讲“情”而不讲“理”，所有的规则都要感情、情绪来操控，这个家肯定会乱套。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不要拿别人的标准，苛求自己的伴侣。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">短视频平台越来越发达，我们常常看别人秀恩爱。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">别人的老公又高又帅又有钱，别人的老婆生了孩子还是美若天仙。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们在屏幕前笑成了柠檬精，抬头看看自己的伴侣，莫名就窝了一肚子火气。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">攀比的道路没有尽头，一味地攀比，只会让自己陷入无穷的失落中，永远不会感到幸福。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这世界上没有十全十美的爱人，也没有完美无瑕的婚姻，知足常乐才是最高明的态度。</strong></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="image" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大多数婚姻，毁于不会“好好说话”。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有人说：“说话之伤，都是暗伤；自带缓释效果，若无人点醒，至死不知。”</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">伤人的话脱口而出，你以为对方没有在意，实际上是埋在心里了，不是不难过，而是算了。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">等到某一天，积攒了太多的失望，再好的话也无法挽回了。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">冰冻三尺非一日之寒，太多的婚姻毁于无数次的不好好说话。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">成年人要学会控制自己的情绪，管好自己的嘴，不要因为一时的冲动，做了无法收场的事。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻不是单方面的付出，要懂得共情和换位。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">婚姻中最怕的，就是把对方所有的爱和付出，当成是理所当然的。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个人无条件地给予和付出，另一个人却一味地索取和被动接受。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">当一个人付出总是得不到回应，再热烈的爱也会被消耗殆尽。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">做一个手心向下的人，学会给予和理解，设身处地为对方着想，<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">这样的婚姻关系才能维持平衡和长久。</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">改变自己，永远比改变对方要简单且有效。</strong></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一句流传很广的话，改变自己是神，改变别人是神经病。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻中试图改变对方的人，最后都会大失所望。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">与其烦恼对方变不成自己想要的样子，倒不如改变自己，试着接纳对方。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">长久的婚姻关系，就是发自内心地接纳，看到对方的长处和优点。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只有两个人都能成为自己，自在地相处，才是最舒适的婚姻状态。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多事情，不必细究，很多问题，不必细看，难得糊涂。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻中的大事小情，如果你细问、多问，只会徒增烦恼，甚至适得其反。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活就是不断制造问题的过程，事事都要拿着放大镜，一探究竟，不仅自己累，对方也替你累，跟你在一起也觉得累。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不经意的事情，睁一只眼闭一只眼就过去了，没必要较真。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻就好比放风筝，该放的时候放，该收的时候收，收放有度，才会越飞越高。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当婚姻确实无法挽回，自保没有错。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有时候，无论我们再怎么努力，还是无法阻挡婚姻走向衰败。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如出轨、家暴、不良行为，如果婚姻真的走到无可挽回的地步，请一定要第一时间学会自保。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">及时止损，保留证据，可以帮助我们争取到应得的权益。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">假如真的走到了对簿公堂的局面，也不至于自己毫无反击之力。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看清楚这段关系，从中吸取经验和教训，坚强勇敢地走下去。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">永远不要因为已婚而放弃自我成长。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人结了婚，大部分的精力都放在照顾家庭和孩子上，很少有时间关注到自己。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果你不能持续地保持自己的魅力，爱人的眼睛就会瞥向别处，这是人的本性。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以任何时候都不要放弃让自己变好的可能，管理身材，读书学习，培养一种兴趣爱好等。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当你成为一个更加优秀的人，不断成长和进步，就会有更高的眼界和格局。</strong></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">谁不希望有这样的一个伴侣呢？</span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">女人需要疼，其实男人也一样。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">社会上普遍认同的是女人是弱者，所以需要疼爱和关心。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但实际上，男人也一样需要关怀，只是他们不会表达，善于隐藏自己的情绪。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">曾经看过一张图很扎心，男人有10几把刀子插在后背，已经鲜血淋漓；</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">女人的后背只有1把刀，她哭着对男人说，她好痛，而男人顾不得自己痛，还不断地在安慰她。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻是相互的，最重要的是彼此尊重，只有两个人都能把对方放在心上，尊重对方的感受和人格，感情才会历久弥新。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">▽</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">钱钟书曾经说过：</p><blockquote mpa-paragraph-type="quote" style="margin: 25px 0px; padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 17px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">“最好的生活状态是，一个人时，安静而丰盛，两个人时，温暖而踏实。”</span></blockquote><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">以上这18条忠告，不仅适用于婚前，也适用于婚后。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">点亮【在看】，愿你有人懂你的坚强，也珍惜你心里的柔软。</p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(236, 131, 29);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">愿你和枕边人共度余生，活出最自信、最幸福的模样。</strong></span></p><p mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">与朋友们共勉。</p><p>来源：有书</p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//www.fqlook.cn/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_cr5" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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