福清市实验小学教育集团2024年心健节暨让爱流动幸福家长成长课第52期（五年级专场)
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010503" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010503"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p><em><strong>父母的语言有多温暖，</strong></em></p><p><em><strong>孩子的未来就有多明媚。</strong></em></p><p> </p><p>为践行“五育融合”教育理念，促进孩子全面发展、健康成长，让心理学与教育学牵手，推动家校社共育，实现教育的和谐幸福。2024年4月20日上午，一场以“温暖沟通，正向合力”为主题的让爱流动幸福家长成长课第52期在总部拉开帷幕。</p><p> </p><p><em><strong>-01-</strong></em></p><p><em><strong>以爱之名 共赴春约</strong></em></p><p>人间四月芳菲尽，在这阳光和煦的浪漫春天，家长朋友们带着期许，怀揣信任，如约而至，现场座无虚席，其乐融融。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20240422212458front2_0_153532_FsovhvTDEYS_I3V_XV4ADMKr74My.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmZxbG9vay5jb20vYWRtaW5fRnYyNzVpbW1Hd0xnX0dTQ29mTWFoR3VkOHBiRC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaipuaDs-S9leWFiOeUnw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="692" data-qf-origin="forum/20240422212458front2_0_153532_FsovhvTDEYS_I3V_XV4ADMKr74My.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmZxbG9vay5jb20vYWRtaW5fRnYyNzVpbW1Hd0xnX0dTQ29mTWFoR3VkOHBiRC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaipuaDs-S9leWFiOeUnw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>林老师还列出了“十大娃希望父母闭嘴”的场景，家长们角色代入，感孩子之所感，想孩子之所想，在换位思考中认识到跟孩子聊天要减少用力，克制表达欲和控制欲。要把孩子当作是一个平等交流的个体，放弃“高高在上”的说教式、命令式、忠告式等语气和姿态。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20240422212741front2_0_153532_FpIZ_fXzXHzi1ou8NbGCQuW5n1T0.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmZxbG9vay5jb20vYWRtaW5fRnYyNzVpbW1Hd0xnX0dTQ29mTWFoR3VkOHBiRC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaipuaDs-S9leWFiOeUnw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="1439" data-qf-origin="forum/20240422212741front2_0_153532_FpIZ_fXzXHzi1ou8NbGCQuW5n1T0.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmZxbG9vay5jb20vYWRtaW5fRnYyNzVpbW1Hd0xnX0dTQ29mTWFoR3VkOHBiRC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaipuaDs-S9leWFiOeUnw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>教育是一场漫长的修行，唯有家长不断成长，方能跟上孩子长大的步伐，陪伴孩子走最长的路；教育也是一场美好的双向奔赴，愿家校温暖沟通，正向合力，共同助力孩子的成长。</p><p> </p><p>文字：薛婷婷</p><p>图片：吴悠妈妈</p><p>编辑：林玉蓉 林强</p><p>审核：林梦霖 林晓斌</p><p> </p><p>来源:福清市实验小学教育集团 </p><p>2024-04-22 20:26 福建</p><p> </p><p 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